kurisumasu
_   __   ___         12/29/2007   4:25 PM

So on my last day in Bohol, I had it all planned out. I was going to spend the afternoon in an internet shop uploading the stuff I worked on, downloading the stuff my staff worked on and researching for my thesis. But here I am. I left the stuff I worked on in the laptop (forgot to save them in the USB O__o), and my staff have not yet uploaded the stuff they're only about to start working on, and I'm too lazy to research. I haven't done any of the academic things I promised myself I would accomplish over the break. But that's pretty much enough ranting.

Merry Christmas. :)

I spent my Christmas at home. Went to hear mass in the morning, slept before lunch, and we all opened gifts by 3pm. I got a number of gifts, they're fine. Nothing I really really wanted, I didn't really want anything anyway. I like the bags I got though. I notice I have a thing for bags. Just a small thing.

Anya is six. She can already read! I've retired as the "elf" during Christmas day (a role I've been playing until I was 20..) because finally the smallest in our family can read. She's taken over as the person who reads the cards on every gift and gives it to the corresponding person. She doesn't like the job, she gets bored, but she'll get used to it. She some little girl. A little bossy, and a little spoiled. It worries me. I hope she grows out of it.

It's times like these when I can't help but ask where I will stand in life when the next Christmas comes. What pages will flip, whose backs will turn, which chapters will end. I worry. There are things I am unsure of in the coming year, I'm not sure if I am strong enough to handle what will come. I just resign myself to the fact that if I get through the difficult things, and get to the pot of gold at the end, I must deserve it. I think I put it the wrong way. I probably deserve the things that I will get. Put yet another way, I must earn the things I want.

I'm particularly anxious for the New Year. Something new happening this year. I mean, this new year. I hope there are a lot of fireworks in Marikina so that we'll have a good time. Fireworks are always a treat.

There are only three things I want for the new year.

Happy New Year!

3 shades of white


a little bit at a time
_   __   ___         12/18/2007   1:21 AM

Just when I thought it was beginning to come together, just when I had things planned out. When I thought things were starting to get better. You come and make me feel divided yet again. As though I was made up of irreconcilable pieces. You come and trace the crease left behind by the crack I'm trying to glue back together. You stir the spirit that was finally beginning to settle.

I wish that one day you will understand. That you will have confidence in my judgment. That you will in time accept the things I believe in and welcome the things I love. Or at least acknowledge it.

I feel betrayed when you deem void the things that bear weight in my life. You and them are not mutually exclusive. You and them cannot be mutually exclusive if you both have me. But your actions tear me apart. I will not last very long if I am broken.

Please hear me. I'm so sorry for not recognizing that all this you are doing because you are worried about me. I'm so sorry for having made choices that hurt you badly. But it seems your hurting has turned into anger. For reasons I myself have already forgiven. And your forceful segmentation of my life, this recurring pain that you cause me whenever you pretend he does not exist when he is right in front of you, and pretend to hear nothing when he speaks, and whenever you cannot even mention his name, it is worth it? Your making me choose to acknowledge at once only him or only you, but not both; your making me keep him from you, not a mention in my stories, in my words, in what I do, even if it makes me happy, so as not to offend you; your forcing me to compartmentalize my life by choosing only you or only him when I want to be with you both. The pain that I feel from all this, every single time...Is it worth it?

Tell me. Because if it is, then I will go ahead and take it without anymore complaints.

0 shades of white


Blurred Into Stardust
_   __   ___         12/15/2007   11:54 PM

Love used to be two seats away from me back in high school, the guy with always nothing but a pencil and two spiraled notebooks that could be bought for five pesos in the market a pedicab away from our school; the guy who’d tutor us with Science as if it were strands of his unruly hair; the guy on a motorcycle across town with me holding onto his waist, waiting to go swimming with the barkada in the next barrio.

Love was playing thumb wars in the MRT while taking me home to Sta. Mesa during my first few years of college in Manila. By then, love wasn’t two seats away anymore but two long bus rides, and one big hack off my allowance. I remember thinking one late December afternoon on my way to his university, that love was this unnamed closeness that had lasted us four years. And that evening, I looked forward to a thousand more thumb-wars to win.

Streetlights spangled with parols in nearly every highway the bus drove through, and multi-colored Christmas lights hanging off of little karinderia placards made the words unreadable. His class ended at six, and half an hour later, we sat ourselves at the corner table of Terriyaki Boy, (which was really as much as we could afford for a Christmas celebration). Even inside the restaurant, the holidays were everywhere. A twinkling tree near the entrance, Jingle Bell Rock playing in a loop over the speakers, he even commented teasingly how Santa could possibly deliver my gift this Christmas if Rudolf was plastered on the glass that separated our table from the smoking area. I stuck my tongue out, “nandiyan naman si Prancer at Vixen eh.”

We walked leisurely around for almost an hour more after we had left Rudolf. A midnight sale was at hand, and the place was still bustling with life despite the time. People hurried along like ants through the crowd for last minute Christmas shopping, bags of bargained clothes and toys hanging from their hands. Yet none of the stalls seem to be drained in inventory by the shoppers. Elaborate light displays and parols hung like ornaments from the entrances, and life-sized Santas greeted them as they came.

“Merry Christmas Kat,” was all he said to my ear amidst the hustle and bustle around us. He was no romantic, but I was used to that.

“Merry Christmas din.” I smiled back at him, and was surprised for a split second to see the sparkle in his eyes to be one of a certain kind of sadness. But still, his smile was as charming as it ever was, the smile he’d only give to me, and that split second was soon forgotten. His arms had been around me the whole time, and he then leaned to kiss my forehead as we walked. He bought me a blue Santa hat in one of the last few stalls we passed, and I wore it the whole way home.

The tricycle ride from the highway to the alley near my boarding house didn’t take very long. The glimmering light decorations of houses along the street were usually left on until early the next morning, so the road was brighter than usual. But still, he insisted that he walk me to our doorstep, as he always did, and I assented gladly, as I always do. It was a quiet walk, and none of us said a word. They say love is most comfortable in silence, and that was how I felt as we strode along, his hand in mine. Love was walking in an alley with nothing to fear, not even the future; love was being able hold the hand of the person I was most secure with, and most loved by. I swung our hands pleasantly like a child on Christmas day. He remained silent.

“Tell me everything ha.” he then said when we were almost at the gate.

“Everything of what?”

“Of what you think.”

“Of what?”

“Of what I’m going to say…”

He faced me.

Right then, I remembered the unhappy gleam in his eyes a few hours back. There was no glimmer in his eyes this time, for there was barely any light to reflect them with, but I could see that beyond the darkness, the sadness was still there.

“I…you..”

It was a while before he spoke again, had he thought his lines out in his head beforehand, it must have been lost to him at that moment.

Ano ‘yon Dani?”

He had looked down at our intertwined fingers, and his thumb started fiddling with mine, as if as an excuse to delay the moment.

“It’s not the same..” he whispered almost to himself, the quiver in his voice inaudible.

“What?”

The click of the Christmas lights hanging from the gate was like the ticking of a clock waiting for him to answer.

“It’s not the same.” He said again, his eyes still failing to meet mine.

“What do you mean its not the s--”

“I love you. But it’s not the same!” There was more guilt in his voice than sadness now. “I don’t love you that way anymore Kat.” He was back to whispering, and the very moment he uttered those words things around seemed to shut out, even him, and whatever he had said next was lost to my memory. Whether there were words of apology or comfort or an explanation, I cannot be sure, but somewhere in the deep corners of my memories of those few seconds, I do recall hearing almost as distant as the continents were far his whisper into the breeze, “I’m sorry.

I stiffened as though there had been no muscle left in my body to move. Much as there were immeasurable things circulating my mind at that instant, I could say nothing. The lights along the street behind him twinkled and danced as they always did, and I wanted to blur into the background the way those lights blurred into stardust behind my fast-approaching tears.

He hugged me the very moment he realized I was crying. It was dark, and I was unmoving and made not the slightest sound; he could not have known there were tears tumbling like snowflakes down my cheeks, but still he knew. Four years had taught us that. Only as his warmth wrapped around mine did I realize he had tears of his own. He was never one to cry, and I knew that he cried then not for guilt, nor for pity, but for honesty. His tears had been there because he loved me still, somehow enough not to want me getting hurt. But I did. And it was he who had caused it. Love is he who causes you pain, yet you hug him back with every bit of strength in your body, and mean it.

After what seemed a lifetime, he pulled back, kissed me in the forehead and, ashamed and without a word, turned around and left. I read somewhere that there was one thing worse than being left behind, and it was the feeling of not being worth an explanation. To me it felt one and the same. We had been five dwarf-steps away from my boarding house gate, but it felt like miles as I walked towards it. I stumbled in as soon as I realized I could move my legs, afraid that he might turn around and see me standing there still, watching his hazy silhouette amongst stardust. The parol before the front door blinked as I passed and staggered, half-blinded, towards my room.

A long time ago, Love was two seats away from me; he who discussed the Social Sciences with me as naturally as if it were locks of his own hair; he who would fiddle with my finger for a little game of thumb-wars when I needed cheering up. Now, Love is just a silly star we all put at the top of our Christmas tree: distant, sparkling, colorful, and playing a monotone jingle bell rock tune from its tiny battery-generated Santa Clause speaker…Something that, no matter how bright or beautiful, will be nothing but a star in its little box, kept in the closet to be forgotten after everything is done.

© Vigile 2006.



Again, dialogue needs to be worked out (among others), but that is to be expected.

0 shades of white


it's all a matter of timing
_   __   ___         12/09/2007   11:14 PM

I have a new favorite movie of all time. And it may not seem all that great to many others, but I like it. Plus I think it was coupled with the fact that I could relate to it very much, plus I have a knack for different stories running in parallel, all very intense and well portrayed, plus Jude Law is so damn good looking.

I've always wanted to see that movie, The Holiday, since I first laid eyes on the trailer. That time it was just one of the handful of movies on my neglected to-watch list, and so I didn't think it was really anything more than a lighthearted movie about two women looking for themselves in an unfamiliar place over the holidays.

Well, well. To my surprise, it had much more depth than just that. All of them (and there were really four of them) each had their own story, each unfolding in its poignant way. Quite gracefully choreographed by the scriptwriter, I must say.

And I particularly like the fact that the little nuances of the plot, the little comings and goings you'd expect to be a default in such a scene (such as his still standing there on the porch when she runs back to him after leaving) were modified to make it seem less of a flick, and more of something that you'll actually find if it had been real life. A case in point is my standing-on-the-porch example. As a matter of fact, when Cameron runs back to him, he isn't standing on the porch anymore (Jude Law, good looking as he is, would have looked ridiculous standing there for give or take fifteen minutes waving at a cab that's already about a mile away). She finds him in the kitchen in tears, and in shame at being caught crying after losing her.

The direction, too, was fascinating. It was one for the sitcom books. :) Situational talaga ang pagka-funny niya. In particular, I enjoyed the telephone scene, with all the four characters in it.

Plus it's just a wonderful story, especially miss crème brulet's half of the story. Fun and exciting and unexpected in every corner.

These, among other things.

Although I do feel unsure about the unsureness of one pair's future, even though the ending was really happy. :) But that's about all the let down I can think of.

I believe though that part of my falling in love with this movie is timing and experience. I probably wouldn't have chosen a better time to see it (though I can't really say it was planned--was about to study math when I saw it was on HBO). Had I seen this earlier in my life, I wouldn't have had enough of the experience I have now to relate to, and appreciate it as much as I did this evening. I'd have to say this was especially true for the scene with Kate Winslet's speech looking back at every little detail, looking for what it was that she had done wrong. That whole speech, I could understand from start to finish. Martyr ba? Hahaha.

That's about it. Do watch it. It's fun. :)

Merry Christmas.

2 shades of white


anything for my little soul
_   __   ___         12/08/2007   10:44 PM

I have been browsing and re-browsing, reading and re-reading my parent's wedding album. My father's words reach deep.




"Teena, you are my little soul. You infuse my little comings and goings with vigor and meaning."



"Little soul, will you always just be there? Just be there. When people have stopped laughing at my little jokes, you don't have to laugh. Just stick around. Just be there, little soul."



"When I see a guy, young, dashing, good looking, highly talented and successful, where words carry weight in respectable circles, I become timorous. What if this guy discovers and stakes a claim on Teena, my little soul? I cannot in reason put up a fight and I wont stand in the way because I know that you deserve him better than me and and he deserves you better than I do. I will just return to my burrow, lick my wounds, curl up in pain and say: Anything for my little soul. Anything."



"Idiocy is having known you without having loved you."



"I know we've past the hardest part of parting. The rest is waiting, waiting, waiting... The problem with waiting is meaning. Will you be there to give my waiting its meaning?"



Teena Bernido
12C Illinois Street
Cubao Quezon City

My love I love you little soul but a man not worth his promises is not worth his love I will come back but I have lost the right to ask you to wait longer I love you

Raul




That last one was a telegram from Yale six years after he promised to come back in three years.

5 shades of white


A Chrismas Story
_   __   ___         12/05/2007   11:54 AM


This is an odd looking parol, the first for the night’s Christmas-lights watching around the neighborhood. I do it every year, at the eve of December, when all the houses are sure to have already been prepared to suit the holidays. I put my hands in the pocket of my trousers and stare at the lantern curiously. It seems to have an extra arm, jutting out between the top and left peaks in much the same way as a turtle’s head between its two forelegs. Could anyone have destroyed the cozy symmetry of a star any better? That is the first of my thoughts; the second being that I must’ve seen it before. Of course, it was likely, considering it is hanging from the roof of our next-door neighbor’s garage, but that isn’t what I meant.

You know how it is when you see something, the commonest of things, and it strikes you as though you could’ve dug out the exact same object from an obscure corner of your mind and replaced it without anyone ever noticing? That is what I meant. Hidden somewhere in the recesses of my subconscious, that very parol flickered, unwavering in one of my distant dreams.

It was in a forest, I think, but I can’t be sure. I was very young then, when I dreamt it. You know how dreams are, most of them are lost to you once you wake up, if not in time. Although I do remember it hanging from a branch high up in one of the brooding trees surrounding me. I looked up at it thunderstruck, with stars warm and twinkling at my feet, and scattered everywhere on the ground. The edges of my vision were a haze, as though mists covered them, and the air was the scent of stardust, which could have been the whiff of the fairy that was suddenly by my side. At least I thought she was a fairy, for when I was finally able to remove my eyes from the hypnotizing parol, I saw her small olive-colored butterfly wings. She was looking up as well, at the asymmetric lantern.

It looks as though there’s another star peaking from behind, she said to me. In that dream, her voice was like the echo of a cello.

In her young eyes were spangles of purple stars and her smile exuded an air of attractive impishness that suited the flutter of her little wings. In less than a minute after I had been awestruck by that parol, I was awestruck by her. She smiled ever brighter with my reaction, I remember, her eyes turning almost bright violet as she did so. It seemed she was used to such a dazed expression as mine.

I’m not quite sure how the dream went after that. The haze at the corners of my vision had been closing in. Either she picked up a handful of stars at our feet, twinkling brighter than any Christmas lights, and placed it on my palms before flying off, or she took my hand and we flew towards that oddly shaped lantern that always seemed to be the same distance away, glimmering steadily like we had never moved, even after having flown far above the ground. Its odd, I could remember the stars like droplets of water, warm as the morning sun as they trickled into my little palms, yet the hazelnut scent that trailed from her fluttering olive-green wings as she pulled me up towards that lantern was also so distinct. And behind her outline, the reds and blues of the parol shone like anything. Whichever it was, I was sure I felt that I wanted to be with that fairy with an impish smile forever.

I continue to stare at our neighbor’s parol for a few more minutes, trying in vain to remember which of the two happened next in that dream. The colors danced in constant rhythm without end, and the odd arm’s lights flashed as though it was right where it belonged. I stand there until I realize the person standing next to me. I look to my side and see a girl in simple jeans and a green turtleneck, and for a split second relief sets in. Suddenly there is this urge to take her hand and continue my Christmas lights watching with her the way it always was every year, but I stop myself.

She smiles weakly and tilts her head. “Hey.”

“Oh…Hi.”

“It’s weird noh?” she tells me. It takes a while before I realize she’s talking about the asymmetric latern. I look up at it again, but the odd arm doesn’t strike me as much anymore, much of my staring at it has gotten me used to its asymmetry.

“Yeah..” I let myself muse with its little light dance. From the corner of my eye, I see her watching it as well. I used to enjoy scenes like this with her, and I still do very much.

“Parang there’s another star trying to peak from behind.”

“I was about to say that,” I release a small laugh at it’s odd familiarity.

“I knew I’d see you walking somewhere along this street.” She smiles at me.

“Of course you do.” I smile back at her. We should be walking along this street together, is what I should have said, but I didn’t, because part of me doesn’t want to. I see her eyes twinkle, reflecting the blues and reds of the lantern.

Through the dark of night, I could see the three tiny moles on her face that I adored every time they catch my eye. They seem to me like Orion’s belt, and I admire it again this time, before she suddenly looks down. For the last few weeks of my being with her, I have gotten used to her looking away.

“Look. I’m...”

“I know,” I cut her off, “me too.”

The night before, she stayed at home with her sister, she told me. And yet she walked along the Christmas amusement park three jeepney rides away from home, taking a bite off a sandwich from a guy I’ve seen only once among the photos in her wallet. Fingers intertwined, they took a seat at the caterpillar as I staggered out the amusement park. I waited outside her house until she came home.

“Maybe next Christmas I can go parol watching with you again.” She says.

“Maybe.”

An awkward pause follows. I look back at the bizarre looking lantern and wonder where my olive-winged fairy is. If only she could fly me away from the spot I was standing on, and up towards the lantern of my dreams. She shifted her weight before she spoke again.

“Here,” she pulls out a small clear bottle from her pocket, and puts it in my hand. It is filled with colorful paper stars that I remember making for her a few years ago.

When we started going out, I began writing little messages and secrets every week in strips of colored paper and folding them into stars, slowly filling out that bottle. I gave it to her once it had been filled and told her to read every star. Now here it is, warm in my palm from the heat of her pocket.

I look at her again. The eyes that have lost none of its sparkle seems to want to say something more, but she remains quiet, a quiet that deafens both of us, but which none of us dare break.

As the love of my life starts walking away, part of me wants to hold her back but my arms stay in place, and my lips do not open. I turn back towards the lantern, afraid that she might turn around and see me looking at her still, watching her silhouette amongst stardust of lights along the street.

Only on Christmas day will I realize that she herself left a single white star in this bottle for me, and only then, when I read it, will I realize I have lost the most precious being in my life to nothing but my foolish jealousy. But for now I stand here on the sidewalk of this dim lit street sparkling with Christmas lights. In my hand the warmth of the bottle rubs against my fingers, and my fairy flies away leaving droplets of stars in my palms and a parol, flickering and unwavering as one in my distant dreams.


© Vigile 2006.



There are many things I have to reconcile in this story. Like, what the hell does an assymetric parol look like? O_o And why exactly did he lose her for only his pride? (related to what was written on that white star heehee.)

Anyway, in case you're wondering, that was written a year ago for Ventures.

4 shades of white


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